{"id":496,"date":"2007-11-15T08:55:51","date_gmt":"2007-11-15T12:55:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=496"},"modified":"2007-11-15T08:55:51","modified_gmt":"2007-11-15T12:55:51","slug":"please-be-careful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=496","title":{"rendered":"Please be careful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It was an act of carelessness that caused no harm, but carried the potential for irony of the worst sort.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday afternoon as I drove west on the turnpike, there were several people gathered at the corner of Illinois Avenue and the turnpike &#8212; the site of a terrible accident that took the life of 12-year old Ashley Paine just days ago.<\/p>\n<p>As we approached the intersection the light turned yellow, but the vehicle traveling next to mine apparently had his mind on the gathering rather than the road.&nbsp; As the light turned red I stopped, only to watch that vehicle honk his horn to the gathering (mourners?&nbsp; protesters?) and cruise on through the red light at the busiest intersection in town.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing happened.&nbsp; Thank God nothing happened.&nbsp; But that simple, careless moment of distraction could have been another tragedy.<\/p>\n<p>*&nbsp; *&nbsp; *&nbsp; *&nbsp; *<br \/>People are dealing with this loss in differing ways.&nbsp; One of those ways, for some, is searching for something or someone to blame.&nbsp; It is not my place to decide who&#8217;s grieving and who&#8217;s just looking for something to bolster their own civic protest, nor to dictate how anyone should mourn or show support for those who are.&nbsp; If gathering at the corner brings you comfort, by all means do so.&nbsp; If honking your horn at those gathered makes you feel camaraderie with them, okay.&nbsp; But there&#8217;s surely no comfort to be gained in risking the safety of yourself and others in your distraction.<\/p>\n<p>So please do be careful.&nbsp; A second tragedy would be difficult to handle right now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was an act of carelessness that caused no harm, but carried the potential for irony of the worst sort. Yesterday afternoon as I drove west on the turnpike, there were several people gathered at the corner of Illinois Avenue &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=496\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/496"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=496"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/496\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=496"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=496"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=496"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}