{"id":559,"date":"2008-05-22T07:35:36","date_gmt":"2008-05-22T11:35:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=559"},"modified":"2008-05-22T07:38:09","modified_gmt":"2008-05-22T11:38:09","slug":"good-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=559","title":{"rendered":"Good Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cathy&#8217;s been on my list of &quot;good moms&quot; for a variety of reasons, but <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/domesticpsychology.com\/blog\/2008\/05\/20\/no-i-wont-lie-for-you\/\">this post <\/a>adds another jewel to her crown.<\/p>\n<p>Her child missed a day of school for reasons beyond her control, and she was advised by the school to &quot;just say that he&#8217;s sick&quot; next time.  In a day when attendance policies are already rigid enough to cause even the best parents some consternation, having the school tell parents to just lie about it is entirely counterproductive.<\/p>\n<p>See, it&#8217;s stuff like that that got us into the overbearing process of coding into policy how many sick days can be excused by parental note.  Not all kids are the same &#8212; some are almost never sick enough to miss school, and some catch everything that goes around.  Most moms develop the ability to discern the difference between a cold and bronchitis, or a 24-hour bug that will go away on it&#8217;s own and something more serious.  Running to the doctor every time a child is under the weather overburdens local pediatricians&#8217; offices, makes it harder for someone who&#8217;s truly in need to be seen quickly, and imposes a financial hardship on parents with inadequate or no health insurance.<\/p>\n<p \/>Such policies also encourage parents to send their kids on to school even when they are sick and contagious, putting others at risk in the process.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad there are still parents like Cathy out there.  All told, it makes everything work better &#8212; even fouled-up bureaucracies that think that everything can be regulated. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cathy&#8217;s been on my list of &quot;good moms&quot; for a variety of reasons, but this post adds another jewel to her crown. Her child missed a day of school for reasons beyond her control, and she was advised by the &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/?p=559\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/559"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=559"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/559\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=559"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=559"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.citizennetmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=559"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}