On Nov. 2, along with selecting a Governor, a new Congressman, and our State Rep. and State Senator, Oak Ridgers will approve or reject three questions on changes to the City Charter. The full list of proposed changes has been transmitted to City Council, which will meet on Aug. 23 to formally receive them and request that the Election Commissions of both Roane and Anderson Counties place them on the November ballot.
The most substantial change to most people would be moving the city elections to November of even years (to coincide with State and Federal general elections), rather than the June of odd years pattern we’ve followed for a long time. The argument for the current method (June of odd years) is that it keeps the focus strictly on city issues; the argument for moving it to November of even years is that it would dramatically improve voter turnout — both because people tend to put forth more effort to vote in these larger elections, and because it’s not at a time when people are typically on vacation.
The second question changes the residency requirement to run for local office from six months to one year. That’s not a huge change, but a sensible one, in my opinion.
The third question is a series of relatively minor changes, including
Many, many other potential changes were discussed, argued, and considered, but in the end, these are what were approved by the full Commission. On the November ballot, questions longer than 300 words (namely, Question 3) are likely to be summarized, so it’s worthwhile for all residents to read the whole 3-page document and start thinking about the decision.
The big one is the first question, as that represents the biggest change for Oak Ridge. For a long time, I’ve been among those who feel that the standalone June elections give us a better opportunity to showcase city issues and candidates. Over the past couple of years though, I’ve put a lot of thought into the prospect of combining with a November election, and I’m persuaded that the higher voter turnout is probably worth the additional competition for voters’ attention.
And, it saves a few dollars.
Study up, Oak Ridge. This is your town, and your decision to make.
About 20 years ago, as my maternal grandmother lay slowly dying, my mother gave me very clear instructions: “if I’m ever like this, just shoot me.”
I love my mother very much, but I’m really not interested in going to prison. At the same time, I understand where Mom was coming from. She was emotionally frayed from watching her own beloved mother dying a little bit at a time, over a decade or more, of strokes that progressively took more and more of her brain. It was pretty awful.
Just last week, my 89-year old mother in law told us, “don’t get old.” Kind of strange advice given the alternative, but she’s on the opposite end of the problem as her body fails, while her mind remains strong. There was no request for us to kill her, but she repeatedly said that she might not be around for Christmas.
I’m guessing she could be around for several more Christmases, if she chooses to. It’s hard for me to know if she’s in physical discomfort, or if she simply misses her husband (gone 10 years now) more than she loves what is left of life from her living room chair.
Today, my friend G traveled a great distance to visit her ailing mother. G’s mom has Alzheimer’s Disease, and no longer recognizes her own daughter. G asked me the same thing (not so graphically, but nonetheless the same result) as my mother did: to kill her when that time came. Just give her an overdose of something.
What, do I look like Dr. Kevorkian? Of course not. But maybe these strong women sense that I feel much the same as they do — that end-of-life care is too successful in prolonging the life not worth living. That maybe we do need an out, a way to say “enough is enough” when we’ve long outlived anything resembling quality of life.
I do not believe in taking the life (or denying life-saving treatment) to one who wants to live. At the same time, is it not equally wrong to deny peaceful passage to those who are ready to go on their own terms?
I think it is. I hope that by the time I am old and worn out, we’ll have a better option.